BF (23/M) says I (24/F) am threatening him and don't know what to do

2022.01.28 03:07 throwra23472022222 BF (23/M) says I (24/F) am threatening him and don't know what to do

Sorry I'm crying as I write this. I don't know what to do. I (24/F) tried talking to my boyfriend (23/M) about an issue I was having with his behaviors whenever we argued, which is to say that I basically told him please stop becoming physical (throwing things) when we fight, it worries me as the beginning of a pattern of behavior, or else we will have to break up.
He said he understood my concerns but grew angry about the way I had approached him to say this. I basically said, I mean, if it happens again... it's over. He is upset because he says I'm threatening him, that there are better ways to approach this.
I apologized after he sent me an article explaining ultimatums are bad for relationships, but that even from the very beginning of the relationship I've told him that if he ever raises a hand against me it's over. That's my dealbreaker. And I see this as a step closer, but he's so angry that I'm "threatening" him with a breakup... and I told him, I don't think it's a threat, I'm just saying how it is. He's upset because "[I'm] only sorry because he is angry."
I'm so confused. I don't know what I did to make him so angry, he's mad that I'm not sorry that I said these things, but I can't help but think that it was a reasonable stance to take. I just want him to not throw things when we argue and work on his yelling/cursing/name calling.
He finally began cursing at me and I asked him to leave, but he is so upset I'm beginning to question whether I AM threatening him. I don't know. Please help.
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2022.01.28 03:07 BurntBeefRamen Writing advice

I’m currently working on a Novel and honestly I’m struggling with writing anything. I have an outline of events of what I want to happen that chapter but when it comes to adding details I just can’t seem to write or stick with anything. It’s been almost a year and I’m stuck on chapter one still. I think my problem lies with me wanting it to be perfect even though it’s only the first draft.
Is there any advice or suggestions for this?
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Both T1 and GenG have 5-0 record and have a 10-2 game record with a 83% win rate.
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Hello fellow newtypes, I was wondering what animeted series would you guy would recommend for someone that has seen all of the UC timeline (even IGLOO, Twilight Axis and G saviour), After Colony Timeline and the Post Disaster Timeline.
Reading the wiki the only animated timelines that are left are:

What would you recommend?
You can send the message here or a newtype DM
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2022.01.28 03:07 lerfeis what is happening to me?

this post is about simulating and causing disease.
i started feigning illness at the age of 11, when i ended up in the hospital for the last time in an ambulance. then i had the first fainting in my life. my mother bought me a lot of books so that i would be a little happy and my condition would improve at least a little. i stayed in the department for 2 weeks and was discharged home without a diagnosis. these 2 weeks were a time of calm. i didn't think about anything. i just lay in the ward, met a girl who had serious stomach problems, and realized that i like being in the hospital. i liked it so much when i was called for procedures or tests, when i had to go across the street to another building for examinations, etc. i just felt good, even very good, despite the weakness due to an obscure illness. since then i realized how important it was for me to be in the hospital.
and i started feigning. i lied that my head hurts, that i fainted again while my mother was at work in order to get to the hospital for further examination. but none of that worked. the maximum that i got was taking pills at home for a month, accumulated a bunch of unfinished tasks at school and notably spoiled my mental state. in short, nothing good.
then i began to realize that in order for you to be believed, you need evidence in the form of bad tests, ultrasound results, and so on. then for the first time i examined the home first aid kit, namely the dosages of drugs and the consequences of overdoses. but for a long time i did not dare to take them. but then i realized that the worse, the better. therefore,i started with a slight excess of a single dose of paracetamol (acetaminophen) 3 times a day (taking a total of 4.5 grams per day). and then, after reading that the larger the single dose, the worse, i decided to take 10-14 tablets once a day. now i keep doing it. recently, a doctor i went to with complaints of weakness and drowsiness told me to go to a psychiatrist. i didn't even know what to say to her.
i just want to ask if this is ok. i can't figure it out myself.
thanks for reading this to the end. it was important for me to share my story with someone. unfortunately, i don't have a person who i can talk to about my problems. thank you. hope you're ok.
P.S. forgive me for possible mistakes, i don't know the language perfectly.
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2022.01.28 03:07 Iceflyger Assessment test, guessing and negative points

Hello everyone,
I'm looking to find an internship recently and I'm required to do a lot of AON verbal reasoning assessment tests. They ask 49 questions in 12 mins, it's like 14 secs per question, like wtf how do you expect me to read all the vignettes and do all the questions with so little time?
So my question is should I guess when I don't know the answer? I read somewhere that not answering is considered the same as a wrong answer is that true? So if I'm short of time I'd better guess through all the questions?
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2022.01.28 03:07 GlobulousRex Tick tick boom is an obvious Oscar’s movie

Another insane take from Amanda.
And she honestly thinks house of gucci deserves an award? What is happening?
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2022.01.28 03:07 dvli Slaanesh is in for a ride.

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